What If You’re Just Putting Everyone Else First Except You? Let’s Talk about it…

Let’s First Talk About the Desire to do Good.

We all yarn to do good, which is not bad. But this is where everything starts from. It all starts with the desire to do good, to see someone happy, to see things working out yet it’s no guarantee that everything will work out the way we expect. Let’s be honest here, when we do something good, hoping to see something good in return is inevitable!! and its surely no crime to expect good out of good. But what happens when we do not get the good, that we expected out of the good we gave? This is where the game changes!!

Was It Worth It?? The Point Where we all Question Ourselves.

Let’s talk about this. Have you ever felt like you have done it all but it was all in vain? Have you felt like you were appreciated less or even not appreciated at all? Have you felt like nothing is actually paying off for all your good deeds? You’re not alone my dear, we all have been there and I know how draining it is. This is the point where doing good starts to lose meaning, we start to feel like there’s no point in doing good and we lose the zeal. But what if I told you that it is actually You not appreciating Yourself?

Did You Just Forget to Appreciate Yourself???

Now this is it!!!
You did it, yes you did it, you felt it was good and enough. But did you actually appreciate yourself?
We often forget to appreciate ourselves because we are too busy looking for affirmation from those that do not know what it took us to do what we did. And this right here is the very reason we start to look down at what we did thinking it was less and not enough because it was not embraced the way we expected it to be.

Appreciate You Dearly. What If it Took you All of YOU….?
No one under the sun can appreciate you more than yourself. This is because it’s only you who knows what it took for you to do whatever you did or to get to where you got!
Take a look back at where you’re coming from and see how hard you fought, the sacrifices you made, the pains you got and all that you went through. You really gave it your all.
You might ask yourself, “what if it did not really work out?” but so what if it did not? Does it change the fact that you really did something, or does it mean you did not try?
Dearest, you tried, and you owe yourself some appreciation. So do not deprive yourself of it!

Real Ones Will Always Come Around.
Like I said, nobody knows what it took you!! Therefore, it is no guarantee that they will appreciate you according to what you invested in, and that is because they have no clue.
Are you craving for some affirmation? Look at you, you definitely did something, big or small!
Wanting to do better?
Do better!!
But the reason for your doing better should not be because you are seeking for more validation, affirmation and appreciation. It should rather be about you seeing a better version of you each and every day.

And Guess What???
The real ones will not just come around, they have always been around, and they always will be. Those that will not push you harder than you can go but rather walk with you in every step of the way until you get it, that which you are thriving at!
Hold them tight, do not let go, for at your weakest, they will always uplift you.